Perhaps you are not found yet. Perhaps you are much more complex than can be defined in a short frame of reference. Let the evasiveness of how utterly vague you may be to become a moment of inner humility- that you are not yet complete. That there is more to the story. More to the becoming. Wholeness not yet determined. Let that be okay. The indecisiveness and the temporarily fragility. Let what is be, without finality and fidelity. Respect the process that is you.